"Sometimes I Wonder..."

Sometimes I see an image and I wonder,

"Did I spot one of us...?

Here's a group of handsome men posed together at some sort of gathering... My vote for the gay one is number two from the right (in the blue shirt) and here's why: First, he's giving us a toothy full on "gay grin," after all it's our propensity for that signature smile that gave us our name; Secondly, while they're all nicely dressed, he's the only one in a tight-fitting outfit, another OGT*; and Lastly, if you look at his left hand, you'll see that his veins are quite prominent, a definite sign of early arousal (and who wouldn't be in the company of such good-looking gents).  So yes, he set off my gaydar, even though he's definitely not my type. And of course at the end of the day, we don't know, and it doesn't matter, it was just a fun way to pass a moment in time.

There's some significant research that suggests "Gaydar" is real, and not only do gay men have it, but almost everyone male or female, gay or not picks up on subtle subconscious clues about people's sexual orientation.  In the case of gay men, I often refer to these clues as "OGTs" or Obviously Gay Traits*.