"The Truth About Who We Are..."

Destin, Fashion Designer, Phnom Penh, Cambodia
by thegaymenproject
photos by Kevin Truong

Destin in his own words: "(The gay community in Phnom Penh) is secret. But it is much better now because of social networks. Some (gay men) feel not so sure, but it's much better than before. But it is still secret because they are afraid of parents or family.

(I knew I was gay) a long time. In my social life, for about ten years. For me, I feel I am ok. I'm 50/50. 50/50 means I don't care about people talking about I'm gay or whatever, I know myself and whatever I like is whatever I want. But I don't show off to my parents as well.

For me, I don't require much. I like people who I like. The best things that I like are appearance or characteristics, morality as well, I don't want to be with gangsters, it is not my type. Simple for me and easy going (is best).

(With regards to successes) I think my tailor business is going well because it is the fifth year. And now I have another business, it is a gay friendly coffee gallery. It is a new flavor in town, Strange Fruit, it is just opening but I hope it is going to be more and more successful.

(Advice to my younger self) Be good, be happy."