"The Truth About Who We Are..."

Thach, Wardrobe Stylist, Ho Chi Minh City by thegaymenproject

photos by Kevin Truong

Thach, in his own words: "When I was 18, I told my Mom that I was gay. Both of us cried a lot. She was worried that I had been affected by my gay friends and she wanted me to go to see doctors. I explained to her that I was not sick, it was just who I am. After calming down, she said she could not force me to be someone else and told me to become a good man and make my family proud.

After that, facing my Mom was a challenge to me and it took quite some time to normalize the conversations between me and my family members. Having support from family is the greatest thing to me and it's not easy for other people to have that.

My family and my life are important to me now. I don't pay attention to what people say and think about my sexuality. I just live and work well to make my family proud of me as I promised. And I have never regretted or never blamed myself for being gay. I even think that is a gift affectionately granted to me by God."

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"Fear Eats the Soul"