"The Truth About Who We Are..."

Ryou, Advertising, Tokyo, Japan
by thegaymenproject

photos by Kevin Truong

Ryou, in his own words: "Gay only means this person has a different sexual preference. It doesn't take away anything from who they are. I'm always looking for somebody who would end up being the same group to me not by skin color or nationality or religion, sexuality, but by lifestyle, sense of value, beliefs and stance and such.I always look pass everyone's difference. Soon I forget they are gay, bisexual or lesbian because I don't judge anyone.

Can't think of (any challenges),but in the next 3 years I have to challenge myself to create my own media.

I haven't yet (officially) told my mom and dad (I'm gay). When I applied to grad school at the Department of Cultural Anthropology five years ago, I wrote essays about the gay scene in Japan and my parents found it, and asked me about my sexuality. I pretended like it was just a subject and that me myself was straight, and they said okay. They have already noticed, and at the same time don't want to accept it maybe.

(With regards to the gay scene in Tokyo) I've never felt so lame personally. There're so-so many gay clubs, bars, events. Ni-chōme further distinguishes itself as Tokyo's hub of gay subculture, housing the world's highest concentration of gay bars. But that doesn't mean the city itself is gay friendly.

In the social scene, the dominant trope in mainstream television and journalism is male homosexuality as gender crossing. In other words, male homosexuality is inextricably linked to a form of gender misalignment that results in feminine males. Homosexuality is still a taboo in Japan. Many dialogues are still taking place among queers. LGBT politics in Japan isn't that simple, but some people are trying to change it.

(this year,Tiga ishikawa aimed to Become japan's first openly gay parliament member,but he couldn't.)

(Advice I'd give my younger self) Never try to be somebody who you are really not."