Sunday, December 2, 2012

"And The Truth Shall Set You Free..."


From The Advocate...
Republican Politician Comes Out as Gay
Will Mike Fleck's coming out affect Pennsylvania?

Diane Anderson-Minshall
December 1, 2012

Pennsylvania State Rep. Mike Fleck came out today in an article that appears in the Huntingdon Daily News. This makes him the first out gay legislator in the state and the only out gay Republican state legislator in the U.S., at least until January when gay Democrat Brian Sims takes his post in Pennsylvania's House.

Fleck, a 39-year-old alumni of the conservative Liberty University and former executive for the Boy Scouts of America was married (to a woman) until last year. He told the Daily News that “Coming out is hard enough, but doing it in the public eye is definitely something I never anticipated. I’m still the exact same person and I’m still a Republican and, most importantly, I’m still a person of faith trying to live life as a servant of God and the public. The only difference now is that I will also be doing so as honestly as I know how.”

According to PoliticsPA, the move will not affect his commitment to the Republican party. “The Republican  party is all about the government needing to stay out of people’s lives,” he said. “I’m not a one-issue person and it’s not a one-issue party.”

There is no apparent political upside to Fleck's coming out, says PoliticsPA's Keegan Gibson, as he represents one of the "most conservative [areas] in the state. Registered Republicans outnumber Democrats nearly 2-1."

In his talks with the Daily News, Fleck said he'd met a great number of gay Christians who tried to change their sexual orientation, but none who had done so successfully.

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Congratulations Mister Fleck!

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"In The News Today..."




November 27, 2012
Eric Segueda


In many African countries church organizations show little understanding for calls for greater rights for homosexuals, a stance which also influences political decisions. Malawi is a case in point.

"We have organized protests against homosexual rights", Father Raphael Adebayo from the Catholic church of Saint Agnes in the Nigerian city Lagos told DW. Together with other Christian denominations the Catholic community in Nigeria has actively demonstrated against homosexuality.

Father Adebayo was not prepared to elaborate on whether the Christian groups are going even further and attempting to put pressure on politicians to tighten laws on homosexuality.

But he left his own feelings in no doubt: "It is impossible for the Church to support something that does not please God. It is clear that homosexuality is an abomination," the churchman stated emphatically.

All religions practiced in Nigeria, from Christianity and Islam to traditional African religions, reject same-sex relationships, says Jagaba Adams Jagaba. He's a Member of Parliament and chairs the Committee against Drugs, Narcotics and Financial Crimes. Because of this taboo in Nigerian society, parliament has approved a law "in order to protect national customs." People living in a homosexual relationship or who campaign for the rights of gays and lesbians may face prison sentences of up to ten years. President Goodluck Jonathan has yet to decide whether to approve the act.

The negative attitude of many churches towards homosexuality does not surprise Markus Gutfleisch, head of the German ecumenical working group "Homosexuals and Church (HuK)."

"The Catholic Church has often intervened, for example in Europe and North America, whenever a government has presented a draft law that would give homosexuals greater rights", Gutfleisch told DW. His working group finds it perfectly acceptable that churches should express their opinion about social topics. But their conservative views should not lead to human rights being violated, he warns.

This dilemma also faces the Malawian government. In November this year, several local media outlets quoted the country's justice minister as saying that laws banning homosexual activities would not be enforced any longer, pending a debate in parliament.

This prompted a negative response from the Malawian Council of Churches, which is made up of several different denominations. In the opinion of Ian, a gay man from the Malawian town of Blanka, the Council "believes that gays are not human beings and should not be allowed to be free."

Since the churches' outcry, the government seems to have back-tracked on its plan. Ian and others can only speculate whether this is a result of church pressure: "We don't know if it is still on the agenda. We can only wait and see."

According to Amnesty International, South Africa is so far the only African country in which the rights of homosexuals are laid down in the constitution and same-sex marriages are allowed.

In almost all other countries, the law foresees prison sentences for same-sex couples indulging in sexual relations. However, in many countries, such as Kenya, Tanzania and Liberia, such penalties are rarely imposed.

Mali, Burkina Faso, Ivory Coast and Mali are among the few African countries in which there are no laws against homosexuality.The practice is, however, frowned upon and homosexuals are treated as outcasts and sometimes attacked.

In Cameroon, gays and lesbians are subject to legal persecution. Committing sexual acts with a person of the same sex is punishable with a jail sentence of between six months and five years.

A fine of up to 350 euros ($454) can be imposed. According to Human Rights Watch, 16 people were arrested in Cameroon in 2011 on suspicion of homosexuality.

Like Nigeria, Uganda is also planning to introduce a law against homosexual acts. Perpetrators of what is described as "aggravated homosexuality" could receive the death penalty. This covers homosexual acts committed by someone who is HIV-positive, who is a parent or figure of authority or who administers intoxicating substances. It also applies to homosexual acts committed on minors. In addition, any forms of homosexuality that are lived openly, such as relationships between consenting couples, can be punished with life sentences.

These plans are based on ideas put forward by Ugandan Member of Parliament David Bahati in 2009. Bahati is a member of the governing National Resistance Movement and enjoys good relations with influential church communities in Uganda and the US. The negative opinion of homosexuality held by religious groups is also reflected in the population at large. According to opinion polls, 90 percent of Ugandans consider homosexuality to be morally unacceptable.

Against this background, the situation of homosexuals in Africa is unlikely to improve in the foreseeable future. While there can be discussion about human rights, "if almost all members of society do not agree with a certain right, then it should no longer exist." That is the answer of Nigerian parliamentarian Jagaba Adams Jagaba to questions about the rights of homosexuals.

For Nigerian priest Raphael Adebayo, there is also no doubt about this topic. "The Church can respect human rights. But if human rights conflict with God's commandments, then a judge will never support them." Father Adebayo underlines that this is the position of the Catholic church. A DW request to the Vatican for more information received only the response: " Please read the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith page on the Vatican's website."

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"Fear Eats the Soul"


"A Thought To Ponder..."

Life asked Death:
"Why do people love me, but hate you...?"
Death replied:
"Because you are a beautiful lie and I am a painful truth."

"Fear Eats the Soul"


"Gay PDA Is Okay!"


"True Love Is A Beautiful Sight To Behold... Live Fearlessly"


Saturday, December 1, 2012

"Coming Out - On The Job..."

I am out to family, friends, neighbors and colleagues at work... This is how I once came out at work after more than 2 years of avoiding the topic:

A few years ago, it was "Diversity Day" at work and we could dress in ethnic costumes if we wanted, so I decided I'd go one step further, I duct taped my mouth, and pinned a note on my shirt that read:

WHO AM I?
WHAT'S MY DIVERSITY?
WHY DON'T I HAVE A VOICE?
WE'RE EVERYWHERE, BUT MOST OF THE TIME YOU DON'T KNOW IT...

It took my colleagues a couple of hours to figure it out, but by lunch the first of a dozen or so people pulled me aside to shyly ask, "Are you gay?"  And being able to remove the tape and say, "Yes!" was a very liberating experience.  I was encouraged in that nothing changed afterwards, I was still as liked and respected by everyone as I was before.

"Fear Eats the Soul"


"The Truth Today..."


"Fear Eats the Soul"



"Gay PDA Is Okay!"

"Love Doesn't Hide Itself... Live Fearlessly"


"The Poet's Corner..."


"Darkness may hide the trees and the flowers from the eyes but it cannot hide love from the soul."
- Kahlil Gibran


"The Truth Of Love..."


"Love seems to survive life, and to reach beyond it. I think we take it with us past the grave. Do we not still give it to those who have left us? May we not hope that they feel it for us, and that we shall leave it here in one or two fond bosoms, when we also are gone?"

- William Makepeace Thackeray


"Same Gender Loving People - No. 1176"


"Yep... Love Makes You This Happy”


Positive images of people like me... The truth of the matter is that we all need to see people like ourselves. So everyday, I'll post a photo, drawing or some other artwork that depicts Same Gender Loving People as what we are... Only Human.


"On This Date In 1955..."

On December 1st 1955 the world changed for people of color not only in the American South but throughout the world.  One simple act of defiance in the face of injustice proved to be the spark that ignited the flame that became the modern civil rights movement.  Now, nearly 60 years later... the promise of freedom for all people including GLBT people is within sight.  This morning, I'll be visiting the tomb of Mrs. Rosa Parks here in Detroit to offer my thanks for her brave stand and all that it made possible.


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"This Day Is For Remembering..."


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