"The Truth About Love, Freedom And Being Out..."

Todd’s brother got married earlier this month and they sent us this candid shot that we had no idea the photographer took. From scrolling through our feed you might think that we typically show public displays of affection, which couldn’t be further from the truth. Even though we’ve been “out” for 10+ years the journey of being truly comfortable in our own skin is ongoing for us. There’s a misconception that when you “come out” you’re instantly self assured and confident. 

As wonderful as standing in your truth is, the reality of spending years being bullied for your sexuality can be difficult to overcome. We STILL have our days when we’re nervous of showing our love publicly in fear of what others will say, do, or even think which is why this photo is so special. A small and relatively insignificant moment to many is such a beautiful one to us when all those feelings fell away...

We don’t know if any of that makes sense to you guys or if you can relate but what we’re trying to say is wherever you are on your journey, it’s okay to have those moments of insecurity. 

Love, T&T 💕 

@tylerandtodd