
Positive images of people like me... The truth of the matter is that we all need to see people like ourselves. So everyday, I'll post a photo, drawing or some other artwork that depicts Same Gender Loving People as what we are... Only Human.
"Never forget that it's okay to laugh at stereotypes..."
"Fear Eats the Soul"
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"Fear Eats the Soul"
GLBT people have a history of co-opting and adopting as our own, the labels, symbols and slang others have used to demean us. I don't particularly care for this habit, and as an example I don't use the various epitaphs (e.g. queer) that we've tried to make our own.
Nevertheless, among the symbols that we've adopted, the "Pink Triangle" is probably the least understood outside of our own circles. I was talking to my friend Mark about it recently and he refused to believe that what I was telling him about it was true. But of course it is, and here thanks to an article I recently read on Box Turtle Bulletin is the first person account of Rudolf Brazda, perhaps the last GLBT survivor of Nazi Germany's Buchenwald concentration camp.
His memory and attitudes about his experience are quite remarkable and even more so considering he's giving this interview at age 97. His is an incredible story of survival and the triumph of the human spirit over evil, hatred and intolerance. After such a tumultuous experience so early in his life, that he could find the love of his life and they together find their way in the world for nearly 60 years speaks to the incredible ability of love to heal the human heart.
"Fear Eats the Soul"
"We're still in a time of war and soldiers are still needed... able-bodied and patriotic Americans, regardless of their orientation are eligible to come on back and sign up to serve their country, openly, honestly, with integrity, acknowledging their partners, acknowledging their families and their lives as full citizens."
- Dan Choi, U.S. Army Enlistee
Although this video has already gotten lots of main stream media attention, because Joel Burns' message is so honest, straight-forward and powerful it deserves every audience it can reach. He understands the truth about fear...
"Fear Eats the Soul"
This is a very beautiful song and video about "love." And although, it's very "hetero-normative," it speaks to the thoughts and the feeling of same gender loving people too. In fact, in an almost disturbing way, it reveals some of the deep-seated thoughts and anguish that I think "we" often feel as some of us believe "our lives" can't be like this.
I myself have thought that if there were a "real ability" to choose not to be as God has made me, I don't know what I'd do... I look at couples in just the same longing way that Gary Barlow does in this video, I always have. And for a very long time in my life, I prayed that somehow God would make me not "one of the others" so that I too could know what I dreamt it must feel like to be with one's "forever love."
Mistakenly, I concluded from God's silence in the face of those thousands and thousands of prayers that went on for decades of my life that it was in my hands to try to achieve that impossible dream. Like many others before me and since, I married a woman I did not love, a woman my heart could not love. And even as I lied to her, saying I was in love, I knew that God had made my heart for a man like myself. And in that bout of self-delusion I discovered that all I had done was to inflict upon myself a terrible punishment. And it was a punishment that hurt her as well and one that left me cold and empty and alone for many years thereafter.
But it was on this day, exactly four year ago today that I sought my answer from God about the true nature of my heart and about true love and about what life could be for me and the man I had truly fallen in love with.
I prayed upon my knees that day from sunrise to sunset. And as I felt the sun moving from one window to the next as the day passed by, God spoke to my heart quite clearly. I had finally asked of Him the right questions and He answered me and I could hear Him. God revealed that He had made no mistake in me... My heart was exactly as He intended. He shared with me that He had ordained love for all His sons and daughters and He approved of all love including mine. And then finally, He gave me a warning about the fear and evil in the world that tries to destroy love. And He explained to me the dangers of loving a heart that feared, and I understood.
Late that night, I bravely declared my love to the one who had fearfully stolen my heart and my world has never been the same...
"Fear Eats the Soul"