Sunday, June 4, 2017

"The Truth About Homophobia..."

Do you see a gay man above...? I do.

These are my own thoughts on homophobia...

I think most people are a little homophobic and I understand that, afterall it's something that's been taught us for generations (think religion).  But most people get over it in adulthood once they meet and know someone who's SGL/gay, etc.

But then, there are the hard-core homophobes out there... we've all heard about them, seen them in the news and on television.  These are the folks who attack us both verbally and sometimes physically... What's motivating them to that level of hatred?

I truly believe that the most vehemet homophobes are actually homosexuals themselves... They are gay people who have fostered such deep-seated denial and self-loathing in their own hearts that to prove to themselves and other their "non-homosexuality" they lash out at the very thing they themselves desire to be and experience.

I was once headed down this same path, I was once a leader in a very hateful religion, I was a republican political figure and I married a woman while fully understanding that I was not heterosexual... Like most of the people I describe here, my homophobia was more over-the-top and hateful than most people's and I too said hateful things that I justified with religious ferver.  But then, thankfully, I came to my senses and quieted my self-hatred and slowly began to accept myself for who I really am.  Sadly, many never take the chance to free themselves as I have done.

There are countless and stunning examples of this phenomena and just last month there's another that I believe we'll soon add to the list, Missouri legislator, Rick Brattin.  When I read his biography, it was like reading the script of lies that I'd written for myself in my own dark days of self-loathing...

Missouri State Representative Rick Brattin (here and above)

Editorial: Intolerance in Missouri — lawmaker says there’s a ‘distinction between homosexuality and just being a human being’

By The Kansas City Star editorial board
May 9, 2017

Rick Brattin, a Missouri state representative from Harrisonville, seems pretty certain: Homosexuality and humanity are incompatible.

“When you look at the tenets of religion, of the Bible, of the Qur’an, of other religions,” he said Monday, “there is a distinction between homosexuality and just being a human being.”

The statement, made on the Missouri House floor, was deplorable. It betrayed a stunning lack of understanding of theology and self-government: The Constitution protects all Americans from the tyranny of any single faith-based approach to secular law.

We asked Rep. Brattin to explain his statement, but he did not return a phone call to his office.

It isn’t the first time Brattin has tripped over the Constitution.

He has sought an equal footing for teaching creationism in public schools. He proposed requiring the father’s consent before an abortion except in cases of “legitimate rape.” He suggested college football players who refuse to play for political reasons should lose their scholarships.

It’s a disappointing record. Sadly, some of Brattin’s colleagues appear to sympathize with his views.

Monday, state lawmakers tried to pass an amendment prohibiting discrimination in the state on the basis of sexual orientation or gender status. In Missouri, you can still be fired because the boss thinks you might be gay.

Brattin made his statement during the debate on that amendment. But it quickly became clear that there were not enough votes to pass the plan, leaving gays and lesbians still unprotected by Missouri’s discrimination law.

That sends exactly the wrong message about tolerance in the state.

It gets worse. After all the amendments were dropped, including the protections for gays and lesbians, the House passed Senate Bill 43, a measure that would actually make it more difficult to sue for discrimination.

The bill is another unnecessary blemish on the state. The legislation’s original sponsor owns a company facing a discrimination lawsuit, making the decision even more questionable.

The bill now sits on Gov. Eric Greitens’ desk.

The governor has made clear his desire to bring new businesses and jobs to Missouri. Supporters say SB 43 is part of an effort to make the state more business-friendly.

But what business wants to operate in a state that tolerates discrimination? Or a state where a representative thinks gays and lesbians are less than human?

The states that grow in the 21st century will be those that show tolerance, acceptance and intelligence. Missouri’s lawmakers are sending a clear signal this state is not any of those things.

The governor should veto the bill. And Brattin should apologize.

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